Maples, yes. Definitely in the list of "see it, pull it" things!
Aspects/integrations: Everyone has different parts of themselves. Online parts, possibly split into (for example) IM, LJ, FB, etc. Offline parts, split perhaps into location where I see them, activity that I participate with them, etc.
Most of the time, people are all of their parts in my head. This semester, I realized that they... weren't. I was having trouble keeping in mind time I'd spent with individuals because as far as my brain was concerned, multiple aspects of themselves weren't the same people. This was... a problem. It can happen if I don't see someone for a while, but apparently can also happen if I'm stressed enough (http://wispfox.livejournal.com/944991.html).
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Date: 2015-04-29 10:45 pm (UTC)Maples, yes. Definitely in the list of "see it, pull it" things!
Aspects/integrations: Everyone has different parts of themselves. Online parts, possibly split into (for example) IM, LJ, FB, etc. Offline parts, split perhaps into location where I see them, activity that I participate with them, etc.
Most of the time, people are all of their parts in my head. This semester, I realized that they... weren't. I was having trouble keeping in mind time I'd spent with individuals because as far as my brain was concerned, multiple aspects of themselves weren't the same people. This was... a problem. It can happen if I don't see someone for a while, but apparently can also happen if I'm stressed enough (http://wispfox.livejournal.com/944991.html).